Paradox #1 of Coaching

If you are looking ‘outside of you’ to buy the solution to your perceived problems, then I’m not the Coach for you.

Just as customers buy results, not products or services, it has been said that people don’t buy ‘coaching’, they buy solutions.

Yet, ‘You’ are the solution you seek.

This Truth, therefore, makes it a lie for me to sell coaching as a ‘solution’.

Selling coaching as a ‘solution’ also implies that Life is a problem.

If you are looking ‘outside of you’ to buy the solution to your perceived problems, then I’m not the Coach for you.

Coaching with me is not the solution to your problems.

Coaching with me does help you to know your Self better;
Coaching with me does help you to understand your Self more deeply;
Coaching with me does help you to become more aware of “Who You Are”, and “Who You are Be-ing”;
Coaching with me does help you to recognise the underlying energies that drive your choices and behaviours.

Coaching with me does provide clarity and support, and a broader, deeper access and connection to your True Self.

Coaching with me does help you see clearly that “You” are, have within you, and can create, the solutions to all your perceived problems.

So, now we know that “You” are the Ultimate Solution, it would be both immoral and unethical for me to try selling ‘You’ to yourself.

If you know that ‘You’ are the Ultimate Solution, then we do need to talk, because I’m still trying to figure out what the “Ultimate Problem” is so I can create a solution that I ‘can’ sell to you. 😉

Courage, Creativity,

Passion & Inspiration,

AllWays in Unity,

Pablo

(Image: John Hain)

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